Let’s call it what it is. The loudest homophobia is rarely about morals. It’s about repression, projection, and rage at someone else’s freedom. If my existence as a lesbian triggers you this much, that’s not my shame to carry. That’s yours. I didn’t ruin anyone’s life. I stopped shrinking mine. And here’s the truth people hate: authenticity terrifies those who are still hiding. You can spam my comments. You can insult my sexuality. You can rewrite my past. I’m still living out loud. And that’s w